You've been here 14 years and now you and your partner are planning to return to your home country in the EU.
You feel that you're an outsider now and no longer welcome. Or appreciated?
It was the uncertainty, you explained. Not knowing what rights you may have.
What seemed so certain has gone for good.
Friends with children will stay on and hope it all works out.
You don't have kids yet and your're not taking any chances.
You may come back, you may go to another EU country.
Our loss.